soothing and being the one to sooth alerts in me now a kind of caution to the blindside of being adept at fixing. that of not knowing who you might be without it, so much so that caretakers can also be great creators of chaos, in order to recreate their role. the caretaker's world is the one that bears down on the world of chaos, validates it by creating a refuge from it. admits the world is not a playground but a war-zone from which we need refuge from.